I chose the topic of nutrition/malnutrition to research this
week for several reasons. I am
originally from Ohio/Kentucky and my family is all about feeding people. No one ever went hungry and they always
found ways to ensure the people around them never did either. When my mom was a little girl, she
would make sandwiches (unbeknownst to my grandmother) and take them to some of
the homeless people she would pass walking to school every day. My grandparents were poor as well so
they really didn’t have extra to pass around, but they helped anyone and
everyone who asked. That
translated through the generations as my mom and I are the same way. We can’t stand to see anyone go hungry.
In terms of nutrition for birth to two, breastfeeding is a
topic that is meaningful to me because of the challenges I had with my
boys. With my oldest twins, Jason
couldn’t latch on because he was so small (4lbs 11oz) so I ended up pumping
milk for him. Joshua did
fine and I breast fed him for approximately 5 months. They both had a combination of breast milk and formula from
the very beginning. I had mixed
feelings about this at the time. I
really wanted to breast feed, but with twins I didn’t feel like they were
getting enough and, with time constraints, I just couldn’t pump enough to keep
up. My husband only spent one week
at home after they were born so trying to juggle them both throughout the day
was a challenge. Additionally, I
was at home for only 8 weeks before having to return to work. I tried to pump at work, but it was not
always convenient or comfortable.
If I had more support at home and support at work, I may have been able
to breast feed longer.
With my second set of twins, it was even harder. Both of the boys were able to breast
feed, but I had the same challenges.
I didn’t think they were getting enough so I supplemented with
formula. Thinking back, I believe
the hospital supported the combination breast and formula feeding. Again, I did not have enough support at
home to allow me to breast feed them.
At the time, the older boys were about to turn 2 years old so I had them
to contend with as well. There
just wasn’t enough time in the day!
It was an internal battle trying to balance the time I spent with the
babies with the time I spent with them so I ended up only breast feeding for 3
months. Another contributing
factor was I developed mastitis around the two and half month mark so after it
healed I decided I couldn’t do it anymore. I knew breast feeding was important and after reading all of
the information this week, I am feeling a little guilty for not trying harder.
I chose to look at nutrition information and challenges for
The Gambia because the text book mentioned this country in chapter 5 and it
reminded me that our first AuPair (Emma) had vacationed in this country with
her family before she came here to live with us. According to The World Bank (2011), 28% of children under
five are stunted, 16% are underweight, and 7% are wasted. In terms of stunting, The Gambia has
lower rates than other countries in the region and income group, but that
likely varies across the different areas of the country and socio-demographic
groups. Although the country
institutionalized nutrition policy development in 2000 by establishing the
National Nutrition Agency and they included nutrition in the country’s poverty
reduction strategy, the infant and women statistics are troubling. The life expectancy in the country is
56; the lifetime risk of maternal death is 1 in 32; the under-five mortality
rate is 106 per 1000 live births; and it is 64th highest out of 136
countries in global ranking of stunting.
I can’t really say that this topic will be something that
impacts my future work since my goal is to work on issues surrounding Autism
and Developmental Disorders. I do
want to advocate in some way for more support in this country for breastfeeding
moms. I am not surprised that the
United States ranks last on the Breastfeeding Policy Scorecard (DellAntonia,
2012). I have also seen several
“hidden camera” televisions shows that show people’s reactions to women who
breastfeed in public. I was
shocked at how horrible people are to mothers. It is a shame that a nation like ours cannot accept
something as simple, beautiful and wonderful as a mom taking care of her
child. What a bunch of hypocrites!
Dell ‘Antonia, K.
(2012, May 15) United States Ranks Last on Breast-Feeding Support. The New York Times. Retrieved from http://parenting.blogs.nytimes.com/2012/05/15/united-states-ranks-last-on-breast-feeding-support/
The World Bank.
(2011, April). The Gambia. Nutrition at a
Glance. Retrieved from http://siteresources.worldbank.org/NUTRITION/Resources/281846-1271963823772/TheGambia41211web.pdf
Jamie,
ReplyDeleteBeing a mother I feel is always a tug of war with emotions. I did nurse both of my children until they were 15 months old however, with my oldest son I struggled with this. I actually had quit nursing within a week of his birth. I felt torn and an uneasy with everyone's comments concerning my decision. I actually had a friend who would not speak to me because I chose to quite nursing. Obviously not such a good friend. Connor got a stomach bug and the ped. told me that breast milk was what he needed. I pumped drank tons of gatorade, anything to produce milk. I could have feed this whole town I had so much milk. I do not regret my decision to begin nursing again. But there are reasons why people decided to nurse and reasons they don't noone should ever judge another mother. You did the best you could with two sets of twins. Do not ever beat up on yourself for choices that were made. You can never go back just go forward.
Jamie
ReplyDeleteI felt guilty too for not trying harder but, I only had one so I'm pretty sure you were overwhelmed with breastfeeding your two sets of twins. It's hard to believe that in today's world with so much knowledge about breastfeeding that some people look down on it. I also felt like I needed a little more support with breastfeeding my first son. I agree with Brooke , that no one should ever judge a mother about her decision to breastfeed. You did a great job handling both sets of twins and you continue to do a great job with them.
Jamie,
ReplyDeleteI continue to be in awe of you and your husband raising two sets of twins. It is totally understandable that there were not enough hours in the day for you. You should not feel at all bad with the choices you made. I had two children and only tried breastfeeding one of them and I was not very successful. Very good post, thanks for sharing.
You absolutely had your hands full with two sets of twins! Never ever feel guilty for your decisions. You did what was best for you and for the situation at hand. Mothers and fathers are entitled to do something for themselves without feeling guilty, at least you tried and tried for a lot longer than some women. Thank you for your post.
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